A month can change your life. I woke up thirty-three at the end of May. Ironically, focusing on fun things to do to celebrate a birthday can distract from the actual aging. The number didn’t really sink until a few weeks later. One digit, a two changing to a three, eventually stopped me in my tracks. Chris and I have talked of many things we could do with our life. Kids. Houses. Music. Moving. Jobs. They have all swirled together in ambiguity and confusion, and I have crept a