We all approach the idea of marriage with different fears and expectations. Some people worry they'll never marry and that they'll spend their life alone. I don't remember if I thought about that much either way - the marrying or not marrying. What I feared was getting married and spending my life alone in spite of it. That's the picture I had to go on that scared me the most. People who shared a house and a last name but still felt desperately lonely. In the early years of o